It’s often apparent when someone communicates in this manner. You’ll hear it. You’ll see it. You may even feel it. is emphasized by speaking in a loud and demanding voice, maintaining intense eye contact and dominating or controlling others by blaming, intimidating, criticizing, threatening or attacking them, among other traits. these communicators often issue commands, ask questions rudely and fail to listen to others. But they can also be considered leaders and command respect from those around them.